lol y suddenly say about forgiving ppl geh...chance and forgive is different =.= forgive doesnt mean that u got another chance, u got another chance also doesnt mean that forgive you.
forgive n give chance different? for me its da same thing if i forgive u means i will give another chance to u for me both of them are the same thing "always forgive" :D
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我觉得重点是要看你自己,再者还要再看他犯的是什么错,值得你去原谅吗?人有3次机会 都是别人说出来的,所谓“一次不忠,百次不容”,一次机会就没有了,那你觉得他还值得原谅吗?
换个角度说,不管我们犯了什么错,只要不是滔天大罪如杀人放火,奸淫虏掠,父母亲应该都会原谅我们,对吧?
有宽恕的心是很重要,可是我觉得是有个底线,毕竟我觉得我是人,不是神。
所以我觉得还是要看事情的严重性和伤害,和他人的品行,如果你明知道他会再犯同样的错,你原不原谅他又有什么分别呢?
wow, so mind provoking geh stuff
there is always a saying of "its better to forgive a person"
like kevin said, it all depends on wat mistake he made and wats his purpose of doing it
if u forgive him, but he will repeat it in da future, then ther is no point of forgiving him
based on wat u wrote, i cant say if u shud forgive or not, but if u can forgive than do it
its better for ur life and ur future! learn to forgive will make ur mind not so stressed! ;)
错就要认,打就要企定。
不要用你对对方的同情和可怜之心来原谅对方的过错。那只会变本加厉,就算有一千次机会也徒然。
而且,如果我同一个严重的错误会重犯三次,那我真的觉得我自己很有问题。
“为自己找借口的人,永远不会进步啊!”
lol y suddenly say about forgiving ppl geh...chance and forgive is different =.= forgive doesnt mean that u got another chance, u got another chance also doesnt mean that forgive you.
just find something to discuss jeh...sien ma =.="
if i nvr forgive u, u nvr have 2nd chance from me, that's same thing though
你觉得有就有;没有就没有。我们说有你也未必会有;我们说没有你也未必会没有。我们说有可是你觉得没有,你还是会觉得没有;我们说没有可是你觉得有,你还是会觉得有。既然有没有已经在你心里有个答案了,为什么还需要询求一些没有价值的答案呢?
楼上geh,使唔使甘“圆”啊= = wc都话左讨论下姐 =.="
forgive n give chance different?
for me its da same thing
if i forgive u means i will give another chance to u
for me both of them are the same thing
"always forgive" :D
沒有咯!
第一次你做錯了,很難會有第二次的機會,或者說根本沒機會,要是真的有第二次機會,你可說祖先保佑,你就不要再犯同樣的錯咯!如果說有第三次的機會,那可能是你上輩子加這輩子修來的福,上天保佑你給你第三次機會.
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